Hello everyone, I’m a 24-year-old guy, and there is this nice lady I met two months back, and ever since then, I’ve been happy. The truth is we aren’t in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.
I planned on settling down with her and likewise her, but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something vital, and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of the breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they’ll be together someday, I was like “Am I dreaming?” (I said that within me).
She went on and on, and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn’t speak for a while, and she noticed nothing at all. I’m dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her. Why are girls confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me, so I have no idea why this is happening suddenly.
I think it’ll be in my best interest to cut off all ties with her because I can’t face what has happened, and I’ll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?
Critics are most welcome.