It’s easy to dream of having a soulmate – a guy who is your best friend and always someone who you look forward to spending time with no matter what you’re doing – but it’s not so easy to find someone like that. Everyone who is in a relationship and happy has been on bad dates before, and every single person wonders when they’re going to finally find their special someone.
When you’re in a serious, long-term relationship, how do you know that this guy is your soulmate? How can you be sure that you’ve finally found the right person and that you don’t have to look any further?
Here are 5 evident signs that your boyfriend is your soulmate. If you can say yes to all of these things, then you can be confident that you two are absolutely in love and that you’re the one for each other.
1.) He likes the quirky person that you are and would never want you to change
Everyone is quirky when it comes right down to it. You might not think of yourself as quirky, but you are, and that’s the reason why your boyfriend is so attracted to you. You’re special and fascinating and there are so many things about you that he thinks are just the coolest.
When you want to be sure that this guy is your soulmate, here’s one big reason: he likes the quirky person that you are and would never want you to change. He never says anything negative about your appearance or your personality or the decisions that you make in life.
If you want to stop eating gluten, he’s right there with you. Maybe he goes gluten-free as well or maybe he just makes sure to stock the fridge and pantry with gluten-free foods when he does the grocery shopping… and he always tells friends and family that you’ve made this choice and that you need gluten-free food to eat.
2.) He never ever makes fun of you
When your boyfriend makes fun of you for whatever reason, even if he just thinks that he’s being hilarious and that it’s totally harmless, that’s never a good thing. You should never stay with someone who does that because it’s just not compassionate or loving or respectful, and you don’t need that.
You know that he’s a soulmate when he never, ever makes fun of you. He thinks that you’re the best person that he’s ever met. He thinks that you’re the most interesting person that he’s ever met. And he can’t believe that he gets to spend his life with you.
Those are the things that you want him to feel about you, right? You don’t want him to think that your goals or dreams or the way that you live your life is a laughing matter. You want his full support and love, and that’s what you deserve.
3.) He does nice things without being asked
It’s one thing if your boyfriend buys you flowers on Valentine’s Day because you told him when you first started dating that’s something that you want. It’s totally another if he buys you flowers or chocolate or brings home a pizza when you had a bad day at work… and you didn’t even mention this to him at all.
When your boyfriend does nice things for you without being asked and out of the blue, that’s another sign that he’s your soulmate.
It proves that he cares about you so much and that he always wants you to be happy. It also shows that he’s always thinking about you and your happiness and how he can be there for you.
This is only sweet and caring and adorable if you also do nice things for him on a regular basis, though, so that’s definitely something to keep in mind. Relationships are a partnership between two people who love each other and want to help each other out and be there for each other.
4.) Everyone you both know agrees that you’re good for each other
There may be some happy and in love couples who don’t have their family’s support for whatever reason, and that does happen since every couple and situation and family is different. Like and family can both be so complicated.
For the most part, though, if you’re in a good relationship, your family and friends think that, too, and his family and friends are also in agreement. Everyone is happy for you guys and thinks that you couldn’t be more in love. They might secretly be annoyed that you’re so happy and lovey-dovey, but hey, that’s cool. You don’t mind because everyone wants what you have found, right?
It’s just not possible for the people that you love and who love you and your boyfriend to not agree that this is a great relationship. When love is real, people can tell, and that absolutely has to be the case here. When you both have your friends’ and family’s support, that’s a good reason that you’re each other’s soulmates. They might even say the word “soulmates” before you two have thought of it, and you’ll realize that it’s true.
5.) You have more fun with him than anyone else
Your soulmate is a person who you have more fun with than when you hang out with anyone else. That’s just the way that it has to be. No, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have a blast with your girlfriends and that you don’t enjoy family dinners with the people who raised you and have always been there for you. Of course, you still love those people and want to spend time with them.
It just means that this guy is your person and he’s your favorite person at that. You never want to be away from him and have so much fun with him, even if you’re just walking around the same route that you always take in your neighborhood, or if you’re both at home with the worst colds and are feeling pretty miserable.
Of all the reasons that this guy is your soulmate, this is definitely one major reason. You’ll also know this to be true because your boyfriend will most likely talk to you (a lot) about how you’re his soulmate and his favorite person to hang out with. He’s so thrilled that he’s found you that he just can’t help himself and always wants to let you know how he feels. It’s so sweet and you’re so lucky.
Everyone wants to find love, and everyone definitely wants to find a soulmate. When you’ve been dating someone for a while and things are going super well, how do you know that this guy is, in fact, your soulmate?
If these five reasons that this guy is your soulmate sound familiar and you can relate to them, then congrats, you’ve definitely found the right guy. He’s your perfect person and you can rest easy knowing that you never have to go on bad dates or search for love again. Isn’t that the best news ever?
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé